socialization

killing us softly:

For many years advisement in the media not only uses woman to sell a product but sets an image as to how a woman should look and how she should be like. According to the ads woman must be skinny long legged big beast and big butt and a flat stomach. Advertisements today still hold an effect on the image of woman. In ads you'll see a w

oman photographed into looking perfect like a barbie doll, kissing or caressing a guy or getting their hair pulled in a sexually violate way. Like woman arent human but sexual objects When young girls see these ads they automatically believe that they need a guy to make them happy and to get a guy they need to look just as perfect as the woman in the ads does. Oppose to men in ads that looks like they hold so much power against woman and isn't portrayed as perfection.

A call to men:

Men are known to not be sensitive and show no type of emotions but to be brave and controlling to woman., like they carry all the control. They have guild lines most men follow called the man box tells them they shouldn't cry or express feelings openly not to be like a women but to act like a man. And if they show feelings other then anger and cry or whine in public their not being men but instead acting like woman.

Both videos explain how both males and females act should. How both have roles to play in the society. Men should have power over their woman and be brave strong and never weak. While on the other hand women are more of a object for sexually pleasure then actual humans. That woman should be skinny with a flat belly and big beast. In society men and women are stereotyped to play a certain role and if that role inst performed as it should be we could be constantly criticized about our actions.

society

I find it very interesting how two people growing up in the same house hold around the same environment turn out be completely different in every way. Me and my older sister have nothing in common we the complete opposite. Sometimes people have trouble believing we was raised in the same house. That makes me question when people say the way you act is a reflection of your parents. My parents treated me and my sis the same way growing up so which one of us reflects how my parents are and if they raised us right who even has the right to decide that?

organic solidary

last week we talked about  organic solidary and society is held together as an organic whole. Im not pretty sure if this relates to it but it ad me thinking about a situation that occured at my job over the past few weeks. I work in century 21 a clothing department store and we have an order of who is there to open and close in each department and everythings been going smooth until this one girl at my department got placed in a higher position. After she left my department we had issues as to who's staying to closing and whos going to help me with cleaning the floor and making sure everything is in place. We were short on people and at times people would call out or show up late,So the conversation on organic solidary made me think about this particular issue because it shows how we all had an order in the department and one person could impact our order in the work society.